Instead, the city should have figured out how to make it legal, with mitigation.
Washington State corner stores and cafes ("WA bill to build community through neighborhood cafes faces roadblock," Seattle Times). There is an initiative to make zoning at the state level more amenable to corner store legalization to deal with third place issues. But there's pushback.
FWIW, I learned a lot from a coffee shop in a strip center in West Seattle. That you can have a cool space, even if the exterior is dull. Buildings are envelopes.
-- "More thoughts on suburban hipness (it's really about commercial hipness generally, not urban vs. suburban)," 2013
-- "BTMFBA Chronicles: Seattle coffee shop raises money to buy its building," 2018
This came up in DC many years ago. There are two problems. You need a few thousand people to make the business work, and most neighborhoods don't have that kind of density. Cost of property is expensive. But there are some in DC still, more remnants of the previous era not new initiatives like Broad Branch Market and Mott's Market in Capitol Hill ("Revisiting Mott's Market corner store in Capitol Hill DC: residents buy the building after all," 2022).
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D.C.’s As You Are bar issues fundraising appeal to prevent closure," Washington Blade.
Gay bars as safe spaces. I am really embarrassed that a few years ago I wrote about the decline of LGBTQ+ third places in terms of assimilation.
Obviously, Republican states are proving that it can be very difficult out there for people who seemingly are against "the norm" ("House Republicans are adding dozens of anti-LGBTQ+ measures to must-pass bills," the 19th, "Republicans Are Winning Their War on LGBTQ Rights," The New Republic, "Don't take gay marriage for granted," Boston Globe, "Greg Abbott tells U.N. to 'go pound sand' over concerns about LGBTQ+ rights in Texas," San Antonio Current, "Voters ban Pride flags on city property in California beach town. ‘It sets a tone’ " Sacramento Bee).
Safe spaces are needed ("The number of gay bars has dwindled. A new generation plans to bring them back," Washington Post).
The Post reports, "D.C.’s ‘queer living room’ was struggling. Then came $150K in donations," how one such bar facing closure on Capitol Hill raised over $150,000 to stay open. From the article:
As You Are, a combination cafe and bar, has played a unique role for the queer community since it opened on a corner of Barracks Row in March 2022. Unlike many LGBTQ+ entertainment spaces, it focuses on more than just nightlife and emphasizes consent in all interactions. A downstairs area is set up as a coffee shop, with stacks of board games in a corner, while a bar and dance floor upstairs are used for events such as disco nights and karaoke. Some have described the establishment as a “queer living room” where everyone is not only welcome, but actively embraced.
But the business has faced numerous financial challenges since its opening, including a delayed launch and a slow period last summer. Nearly two years in, Pike and their co-owner and spouse, Jo McDaniel, found themselves with roughly $150,000 of debt. They realized on Feb. 5 that they had to catch up on their tax payments to be eligible for D.C.-administered grants.
National Christian Church, Thomas Circle, Washington, DC.
... Pike and McDaniel said they asked their landlord to renegotiate their $27,000-per-month rent to be based on sales, but were denied. At one point, they said, their real estate company sent them the wrong account number for a wire transfer. They still have not gotten back $18,000 of the payment they made to that incorrect account, they said.
Rueben Bajaj, their landlord, declined to discuss the details of his interactions with Pike and McDaniel but said his company has had “ongoing conversations” with them and “provided solutions.” Bajaj contributed $500 to the fundraiser because, he said, “I personally want to see As You Are succeed.”
The Washington Blade reports another bar will be opening in a couple months on 14th Street ("New gay bar on 14th Street to open in April"). From the article:
“This new venue, catering especially to the LGBTQ+ community, offers a cozy, inclusive space that reminisces about the times of record stores and basement hangouts with friends,” the statement says. “In its past life as a music store and radio supply shop, Crush transforms its legacy into a modern-day haven,” the statement continues. “It features top-notch DJ booths, a dance floor and a summer garden, alongside a premium sound system to ensure every night is memorable.”
Rutstein told the Washington Blade the new bar will have a capacity of accommodating 300 people on its two floors. He notes that the name ‘Crush” stems from the romantic crush that people often have for one another and his and Rutgers’ new bar is aimed at providing a friendly space for people to meet and socialize.
“We’re looking to be inclusive to everyone,” Rutstein said. “It’s certainly going to be heavy on the LGBT community” because he and Rutgers have been part of that community for many years. But he added, “We want to be inclusive to gays and lesbians being able to bring their friends and allies in along with them and not feel weird about it.”

Photo: Under the UmbrellaWhich reminds me that an LGBTQ+ book store opened in Salt Lake.
Again, it's not about assimilation as much as it is that people need supports on that continuum of their journey/age cohort, etc. ("Why we love Under the Umbrella, Salt Lake City’s little queer bookstore," USA Today). From the article:
What’s your store’s story?
Under the Umbrella Bookstore is your local queer bookstore. No other bookstore in the area specifically caters to the queer community, providing a safe space for queer folks of all ages to congregate and celebrate their stories. Under the Umbrella is meant to help bridge the gap between what Salt Lake City currently has and what the city needs by providing a safe, accessible, and inclusive space for everyone. Utah is predominantly white, which means there are even fewer places where the safety and comfort of queer people of color are prioritized.
And a sports bar ("The Locker Room: Salt Lake City's first gay sports bar," Salt Lake Tribune).
The McDonald's inside Scarborough's Cedarbrae Mall will be closing at the end of February after 18 years.
Andrew Francis Wallace Toronto Star.Toronto: Closing of McDonalds stores in neighborhood shopping centers. The Toronto Star writes, "When a neighbourhood mall McDonald's closes, more than food disappears,," about how the closure of McDonald's restaurants in area malls inadvertently reduces options for seniors Some letter writers weigh in as well, "We need more community spaces geared to seniors." From the article:
On the surface, it’s not sad news when a multibillion-dollar fast-food conglomerate closes a handful of locations (Scarborough is a culinary paradise, after all). But consider the role these spots located inside neighbourhood malls play in areas lacking places for people to gather, chat and evade freezing temperatures or the blazing sun.
While I wait for my breakfast, two older men behind me shove coins into each other’s hands, refusing to let the other pay for their coffee. The cashier looks on in amusement, clearly having witnessed this routine before.
That’s the charm of these neighbourhood malls, characterized by one or two anchor tenants – usually a department store, gym, supermarket or standalone fast-food joint – and non-chain retailers, as well as doctors’ and government offices. These malls aren’t destinations for luxury shopping, Instagram-friendly backdrops and ticketed “immersive experiences,” but rather they’re where local residents run errands and are able to hang out with friends for hours for the price of a $2 cup of coffee, a relatively low barrier in an increasingly unaffordable city.
... “(There were a lot of) seniors with their coffees sitting for hours,” he recalls, describing the scene at the now-defunct Eglinton Square McDonald’s. “It brings communities together like a coffee shop. It’s a reason to go out and come together when you didn’t have a lot of money. ... Whether you’re in high school or a senior, it’s the place to be. ... With Cedarbrae (Mall), Cedarbrae Collegiate (Institute) is right behind it, so thousands of kids over the years have been to that McDonald’s.”
New York City Puerto Rican neighborhood social club. Last year in the food section, the New York Times ran a story on the perseverance of a Puerto Rican social club in the face of a changing neighborhood ("Her Social Club Isn’t Going Anywhere. Toñita Has No Plans to Quit.").
In a part of Williamsburg, Brooklyn, that has been transformed in recent years by modern apartment buildings and fast-casual restaurants, a nondescript door on Grand Street is the entrance to Toñita’s, one of the last Puerto Rican outposts of its kind in New York City.
Here, the customers drink $3 beers and play dominoes, or sit around and chat over free plates of food like arroz con gandules.
The walls are crowded with Puerto Rican flags and portraits of the bar’s owner and matriarchal figure,
Social clubs like Toñita’s are popular in Puerto Rico and Cuba. Photo: José A. Alvarado Jr. for The New York Times.
Maria Antonia Cay, who is more commonly known as Toñita. She opened the place in the 1970s as the Caribbean Social Club, a members-only hangout for the neighborhood baseball team. In 2000, she obtained a liquor license and opened the spot to everyone for cheap drinks and pots of Puerto Rican dishes that she makes in her apartment kitchen upstairs. (She bought the building decades ago.)
“It reminds me of home,” said Djali Brown-Cepeda, an archivist and filmmaker who runs the Nuevayorkinos Instagram account.
As neighborhoods like Williamsburg gentrify and businesses owned and frequented by people of color close, many of the people who grew up there fear they’ll lose the community outposts where they can speak Spanish, dance and play games. Ms. Cay said she has been offered millions of dollars for the building but will not sell.
Reading at the Astin Beer Company.Silent book clubs. Is a thing ("Silent Book Club gains traction in the Pittsburgh region," Pittsburgh Tribune). From the article:
The rules of Silent Book Club are simple: No assigned reading, no homework and no small talk required. Members are expected to show up at a designated meeting place with whatever title they’re enjoying, sit and read.
They can share thoughts if they want, but they don’t have to.
The concept has revitalized the idea of joining a book club.
It’s paradise for introverted readers and book vigilantes who don’t like the rules of traditional book clubs.
Civic assets as public facing opportunities for civic engagement and promotion of democracy. Am working on this wrt the Park I'm on the board of in Salt Lake in terms of volunteerism and meeting opportunities, as well as a proposal to the City Library to create a combination Dallas Public Library Urban Information Center and technical assistance center, with training opportunities, showing webinars from publications like Chronicle of Philanthropy, etc.
-- "Community cleanups and other activities as community building and civic engagement activities," which is somewhat misnamed as it discusses various types of spaces," 2011
-- "The layering effect: how the building blocks of an integrated public realm set the stage for community building and Silver Spring, Maryland as an example," 2012
David Barth, AECOM
Connelly leaned on a newly purchased volleyball net, a ball, and a powerful resource: the public park. Public spaces, which served as a lifeline for people during the pandemic, can be more thoughtfully designed to better foster human connection and combat loneliness.
After corralling friends for a casual volleyball game, Connelly headed to a grassy spot in Lincoln Park, across the street from her apartment in Somerville. Several passersby, observing the group’s overhand serves and obvious camaraderie, asked to join the game. As Connelly, her friends, and their soon-to-be friends cleaned up the net after playing, they started a group chat to coordinate play times, resulting in what is now a group of more than 500 community members, and growing, who get together almost daily to socialize and play volleyball.
... As an urban designer advocating for more sustainable, livable, and equitable cities, I hear communities express the need for sticky public spaces daily. To create them, I work with people across Greater Boston to transform unused storefronts into temporary vibrant social infrastructure, like community pop-ups that host regular events and serve as communal living rooms.
These spaces make people feel welcome, represented, and connected to their neighborhoods, and this, in turn, builds social connections between visitors.
Though the Lincoln Park volleyball group formed organically, it was no accident. The park was designed to spur the interactions that allowed the spontaneous group to grow. In 2018, the City of Somerville renovated the park, turning it from baseball fields into a lively space with a skate park, parkour area, basketball court, multiple playgrounds, hammock poles, a community garden, and much more.
In the park’s redesign, these areas flow into one another — for example, the central path cuts through the skate park — creating connections between uses and users.
... The park is also well integrated into the dense neighborhood of multifamily homes that surrounds it. On streets that dead-end at the park, the sidewalks continue without gates or other barriers. This confluence of environmental and programmatic design creates a park that is sticky.
... Social infrastructure, like physical infrastructure, requires upkeep, investment, and adaptation. All communities deserve to have local public spaces that are designed to be sticky. Just as cities determine which roads and bridges need repair, so should they assess where their social infrastructure is lacking.
City leaders can start by asking community members to finish the sentence “I wish I had a place to . . . " They can then take what they hear and use whatever space is available — an extra room in a library, a disused municipal building, even a parking lot — to create that place.
-- CultureHouse,